Things To Do When You're Bored In Your Relationship

So it's been more than a year you got married and living a happy married life, and you have realized that your partner is just a typical person. They are not perfect and they do just work in the bank. The Spark is now more of a nightlight- soothing and refreshing but not super exciting. You may be beginning to question if this is because you aren’t a great fit, but I am here to tell you that is not the case. It’s perfectly normal to feel bored in your relationship at any point. When you meet someone new and feel that rush, it is because your brain is releasing happy hormones. The longer you are with your spouse, the more those hormones calm down, because it would be exhausting to be giddy for the rest of your life. You slip into routines, and boredom becomes a natural emotion- but don’t worry! Peep below for 5 things you can do to spice it up and rediscover your excitement for one another.

1. Be More Interested Do you know what your spouse really does throughout their day at work? Do you know what their favourite vacation was and why? So often in a relationship, you take what your spouse says at face value and don’t dig deeper. Pretend you are a journalist and it is your aim to figure out more about what your spouse is saying.
   
   
2. Alter Something in the Bedroom Is there something you have been craving to try in the bedroom? Communicate through it with your spouse and if you are both on board, give it a go! 
   
   
3. Try New Places Growing out of your habits and the normal environment is a great way to fill excitement back into your relationship. This can be a pure weekend getaway in a town that’s within driving reach.Make memories mutually in a new home and enjoy one another’s company.
   
   
4. Adopt New Hobby Together Not only will this be pleasant to do together, but it’s also just satisfying for you. If you’re enjoying yourself and your partner is there, you will make positive connections with them in your head. This will also give you both something new to talk about, which is great when you feel like your relationship is getting dull.
   
   
5. Plan Date Nights First of all, date nights should be compulsory. If you and your partner are not normally scheduling time together, that may be a hint that something else is going on. One way to make it more interesting is to trade off planning the night. This gives a surprise element and allows you to share something you like or are interested in with your spouse.

Now go ahead and try them and spice it up to your life and if you have tried above things and still bored in your relationship then it's time to talk with an Expert. Just Remembers it's a phase, Feeling bored is natural,just admitting to yourself and to your spouse is a great way to tackle it.

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