10 Questions to Ask a Boy on First Meeting for Arranged Marriage

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Arranged marriages are still a common practice in many cultures around the world. While it can be daunting to meet someone for the first time with the intention of getting married, it is important to ask the right questions to get to know the person and see if they are a good match for you.

Here are some questions you can ask a boy on your first meeting for an arranged marriage:

  • What is your idea of marriage? This is a broad question that can help you get a sense of his overall values and priorities. What does he see as the purpose of marriage? What are his expectations for a successful marriage?
  • What are your long-term goals? This question can help you assess whether your goals are compatible. For example, if he wants to have a large family and you don't, that could be a major point of contention.
  • What are your hobbies and interests? This question can help you find common ground and see if you have similar interests. It can also be a good way to gauge his personality and lifestyle.
  • What are your strengths and weaknesses? This question can help you get a more honest assessment of who he is as a person. It can also be a good way to see how he handles criticism.
  • What are your deal breakers in a relationship? This is an important question to ask, as it can help you avoid wasting time on someone who is not compatible with you. What are the things he would never compromise on in a relationship?
  • How do you handle conflict? Conflict is inevitable in any relationship, so it is important to know how your partner handles it. Does he tend to bottle up his emotions or lash out? Is he able to communicate effectively and resolve conflict in a healthy way?
  • What is your relationship with your family like? Your partner's family will become your family, so it is important to know how he gets along with them. Is he close to his family? Does he have a good relationship with his parents?
  • What are your religious and cultural beliefs? This is an important question to ask, as it can impact your compatibility. Do you share the same religious and cultural beliefs? Are you willing to compromise on your beliefs?
  • What are your financial goals? It is important to be on the same page financially, as this can be a major source of conflict in a marriage. What are his financial goals? Is he responsible with money?
  • What are your expectations for a wife? This question can help you understand what he is looking for in a partner. What qualities does he value in a wife? Is he looking for someone who will be a stay-at-home mom? Someone who has a career?

These are just a few questions you can ask a boy on your first meeting for an arranged marriage. It is important to ask questions that are relevant to you and that will help you get to know him as a person. The more you know about him, the better equipped you will be to make a decision about whether he is a good match for you.

In addition to asking questions, it is also important to pay attention to his body language and overall demeanor. Does he seem genuine and interested in getting to know you? Does he make eye contact and smile? Does he seem relaxed and comfortable? These are all signs that he is a good person to get to know further.

Of course, no amount of questioning can guarantee that you will find the perfect match for you. However, by asking the right questions and paying attention to his body language, you can increase your chances of finding someone who is compatible with you and who you can build a happy and fulfilling marriage with.

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