The Matrimonial Journal

George Bernard Shaw once said, “The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.” Picture this: someone is speaking to you, expressing their thoughts carefully for you to understand. You wait for the breaks in the conversation when you think they’ve finished talking, and then you interrupt with your own piece of information or repeat what was just said. “Oh, I know just how you feel,” you say, or “I had the same thing happen to me. Let me tell you about it!” You fail to listen. You create your own ideas. You miss the message and the opportunity to understand. It’s about your agenda, not theirs. Have you ever experienced this?  Often, you think you’ve understood what was said, but the reality is that you spent the whole time formulating a reply and forgot to actually listen. Arguably, listening is the most difficult skill in communication, and we’re getting worse at it. What We Listen Vs. What We Understand There is a lag time between listening ...

Justification There's a person who is married having two sweet children,caring and loving wife but he is having an affair with her neighbourhood lady who is having  two children ,her husband is captain in navy so cabt give time to her wife , BUT  can she justify her husband the trust he has upon her............? There's a gal her father died when she was 18 she usually hangout with her male friends she has old mother now to take care of one little sister and one brother to care of..BUT now what she wants someone to hold her hand help her respect her and her family any justification of life for her.............?? There's a gal who got married 3 years ago her family's  financial condtion was very poor she used to love some guy and that guy was also serious for her but girl's family insisted her to marry a guy who is into well established business and earning handsome amount she got married after wards and now she has all the things which can be bought by...