Building A Healthy Relationship with your Partner

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Building a Healthy Relationship with your Partner

I don't know whats going on these days, boys and girls, why are they not respecting their companions, I know giving space is ok but striving to abuse that space is not.

Today girls and boys are so open-minded that they know that for a great relationship they both have to contribute, they both have to make their partners Comfortable in their zones, but the fact is that they are disgracing the faith and love between each other.

I know this couple who recently got married and yes it was a love marriage they both were into so much love that a girl doesn't even listen to her closest friend, whenever her friend tries to talk to her about her boyfriend she just ignores the things as she was very much sure about his character, so this goes on and on but she never pays regard to her friends and there comes a wedding day, she was very happy of course months passed now the girl has realised her friends were so true about her husband, she is doubting "extramarital affair", now what kinda relationship it is ? you loved that girl man how can you cheat on her?
she gave you love, space, importance over friends and now she deserves this cry bullshit.
Please, guys, this is not what space, trust means. This relationship is sleeping relationship.
Give it a try. Make it worth. I just wanted you all to try and fix up your relationship in your marriage.
when I was writing this one of my friends asked me what I was doing I said blogging on an issue, so she just asked what should be done to avoid this so I think a little bit of my own and answer was

  • Talk to each other
  • Understand your partner

In between when I was thinking, she said, "Nobody Follows This". They just argue, fight and as a result misunderstandings and more confusions. So what can be the solution guys: Couples you should learn by your mistakes. The path is not easy. It takes two people working together, not just one. We tend to forget we need to communicate with each other and listen to what the other one has to say. When we all first get into a relationship or get married it is romantic and we try to do the best to impress each other. As life goes by and more problems come with being in a relationship, then we tend to look at each other a little differently. Things that didn’t bother us before now seem to irritate us to death! There my friends have started the process of sleeping relationships. Avoid this situation.

HOPE YOU LEARN FROM IT.

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