Important Factor to Consider in Marriage Life

-
Marriages: we all know a lot about the concepts, principles, ways and manners that how we can make our married life smooth and happy. We all have must read and heard about the rules here and there, but what we going to discuss today is about the “Trust” factor. Trust is probably the most important ingredient in building a relationship between husband and wife.

Trust is something that can be cultivated and nurtured if you will follow the guidelines below.

Constantly work to improve your communication skills. Develop the skill of being a good listener, which is one of the hardest skills to develop. Being a good listener means you don't interrupt your spouse. This requires great discipline and respect. Learn to ask, "Are you finished?" Always make sure you've fully understood what the other person has said.
Take responsibility to express your needs and express them clearly and assertively.  We often don't express our needs for two reasons. Either we are afraid of rejection or we are afraid of feeling ashamed for having such needs. When a couple can express and meet each others needs consistently this is one of the most powerful ways to build trust in a relationship.
Be Positive.
A key tool to use here is the "5 to 1 rule." This means that before you say anything negative to your spouse, you must have expressed at least five positive things. Only then, are you allowed to say something negative or critical.

Solve your Issues as soon as possible.
This requires that a husband and wife develop good problem solving skills.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Should your spouse be your best friend?

-
Image
He’s like my best friend.” “She’s the best friend in my life.” He’s like my best friend.” “She’s the best friend in my life.” These are common statements and beliefs about a relationship with our spouse.That they must be our friend, no, best friend — as well as all the other roles a spouse plays in marriage.While I don’t discount that there should be friendship between husband and wife,  having him or her as your best friend will be the death-nail to the marriage. To clarify, I’m referring to best friend here as a primary and/or sole outlet of your relational needs. When you first met your spouse,  ideally  you were both living lives that were fulfilling and interesting (note the emphasis on “ideally”— if you and/or your spouse didn't have a lot going on when you first met, the relationship was already in really big trouble). One reason your spouse was attractive was the life they were living apart from you. The lives you were living before you met were an impo
Read more

10 Questions to Ask a Boy on First Meeting for Arranged Marriage

-
Image
Arranged marriages are still a common practice in many cultures around the world. While it can be daunting to meet someone for the first time with the intention of getting married, it is important to ask the right questions to get to know the person and see if they are a good match for you. Here are some questions you can ask a boy on your first meeting for an arranged marriage: What is your idea of marriage? This is a broad question that can help you get a sense of his overall values and priorities. What does he see as the purpose of marriage? What are his expectations for a successful marriage? What are your long-term goals? This question can help you assess whether your goals are compatible. For example, if he wants to have a large family and you don't, that could be a major point of contention. What are your hobbies and interests? This question can help you find common ground and see if you have similar interests. It can also be a good way to gauge his personality and lif
Read more

Ache Sache Rishtey Marriage bureau in Delhi

-
Image
www.Matrimonialvivah.com Ache Sache Rishtey Matrimonial service in Delhi  Building Family Relations Since 1993 Only Marriage bureau where you can have matches according to your criteria, we believe it’s all about our efforts and your destiny (Sanjog); we are giving personalized services to our clients giving matches through Whats app the most effective medium today or through email where records can be kept easily and you can go through the profiles easily. we are running a Matrimonial site also where you can upload, edit your particulars and can have a look of our working how we are working what are the client reviews testimonials Enquire about us and can have a look of the work we have done for our respected clients which is our family now, we are rising with all with our clients by successfully arranging their marriages which are based on only truth we try our best that the marriages we arrange should be between good families and good genuine peo
Read more