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Marriages in India

Recently, I read an article about how a girl thinks that she would not make a good "Indian Bride" and gave her reasons for the same which I thought were laughable. But after researching a bit more I was shocked as to how right she was. For instance people in India still expect the girl to take the boy's surname for no other reason than to stoke their own ego.
Marriage advertisements have become nothing short of a sale. They read "Young girl, 25 years in age, beautiful, educated, good cook, has Indian values, does not have male friends". Of course because if a girl has friends other than girls she can only be a loose character kind of girl can't she? Is this the face of modern India? India has evolved to become the most hypocrite country of the world.
We ramble on about how advanced we have become, how modern we are. But in reality, are we really progressing when we have the same mentality as the people did a hundred years ago. Girls are still expected to stay…

Indian Traditional Marriage

Indian weddings square measure historically multi-day affairs, and involve several convoluted ceremonies, like the painting of the hands and feet of the bride known as a mehndi. Garlands square measure bestowed to guests of Honor rather than corsages, and much of flower or rose petals square measure thrown permanently luck. the marriage is often divided into 3 parts: pre-wedding, main, and post-wedding. The pre-wedding includes all the preparations and a celebration the night before wherever either side of the family will meet one another and dance and celebrate. A Pundit, UN agency has elect the day of the marriage supported the bride and groom’s horoscopes, conducts a prayer with members of the family to supply the couple with a gaily married life. the marriage altar (mandap) is constructed the day of and therefore the groom is welcome by his future mother in law wherever his feet square measure then washed and he's offered milk and honey. His sister in law can decide to steal h…

Marriage Meeting of Two Minds

Meeting of two minds: Two souls who are living together, sharing their lives, their daily routine, their happiness and sorrows interest are couples who are tied in a knot of holy matrimony. Marriage is not only about two lives coming in a close relationship its all about how you maintain that bond.
How to establish understanding between each other and a sense of togetherness for a blissful wedding. This requires a few things if one tries to follow them life can be much more lively. One thing which one should keep in mind and stay away from is “EGO” - the “I” or self of any person. This is so unhealthy feeling if one adopts it in his/her life can result into very serious issue. Some points one should kept in mind which can establish a harmony between two couples can be:
1)      Patience: Have a calm attitude towards each other maintain a state of composure, try to control yourself and your temper, try to minimize your frustration, maintain work-life balance and for this you need to quiet …

Important Factor to Consider in Marriage Life

Marriages: we all know a lot about the concepts, principles, ways and manners that how we can make our married life smooth and happy. We all have must read and heard about the rules here and there, but what we going to discuss today is about the “Trust” factor. Trust is probably the most important ingredient in building a relationship between husband and wife.
Trust is something that can be cultivated and nurtured if you will follow the guidelines below.
Constantly work to improve your communication skills. Develop the skill of being a good listener, which is one of the hardest skills to develop. Being a good listener means you don't interrupt your spouse. This requires great discipline and respect. Learn to ask, "Are you finished?" Always make sure you've fully understood what the other person has said. Take responsibility to express your needs and express them clearly and assertively.  We often don't express our needs for two reasons. Either we are afraid of re…

Three Elements to Support your love link that is Marriage

Anything is possible if you just believe, If you believe you can do it, you can achieve it, you can get what you desire, this concept goes with your marriage life also, if you think you can steal his or her heart, if you think you can make your life easy and smooth without any difference between you too, You just have to BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. Believing in your-self is the key to success in life. Nurture your life with positive attitude, Believe in your dreams and follow your heart. once you start believing in yourself and in your actions you can hope for your future married life and you can mould your expectations into reality and desire into life hope is much wider meaning in actual: H:  Have O:  Only P:  Positive E:  Expectations
Hope makes all things work, so Hold On Pain Ends. When you are looking forward to your results you have to believe in and faith in, faith in god and faith in yourself.
Faith F: Forwarding A: All I: Issues T: To H : Heaven
Faith makes all things possible; it enables one t…

Secrets to a Great Marriage

1. Think before you speak
People in marriages tend to have very "hot" buttons causing frequent arguments. One reason for this is that the boundaries that exist at the workplace or with friends and relatives do not exist in a marriage. Much of marital bickering can be lessened or mitigated if you wait before you respond to something that has made you angry. If you think for even five seconds before you respond, the amount of marital bickering will be greatly reduced. It may be better to discuss the difficult issue on another day when the emotions are not so high. You can broach the topic (at that later time) by saying, "Dear, I have some unfinished business to discuss with you. May we discuss it now?"
2. Don't give up
If you ask any married person, he or she will tell you that marriages wax and wane. There are good times, bad times, and even middle times. A marriage is viable if the good outweighs the bad, even by a little bit. Appreciate the good and try to let th…

Trust and Time builds Beautiful Relations

Relationships can be so beautiful if handled with love, care and calmness. Relationship is between two people, two which are meant to be together forever.
The most important factor to build a lovely and beautiful relation is Trust, Trust is something that you have to gain and build. It cannot be sold or purchased, one has to earn it and maintain it. Similarly, Marriages and Matrimonial Service providers like Matrimonialvivah.com tries to build this beautiful relation among and with their clients, we know building trust is not an easy task, it is a matter of fact which takes time but once developed, it should be maintained, proper understanding, patience and time is required. One should understand the needs and emotions of the concern person. One should try to give respect and love to each other emotions.

Relations are made between two persons, it can be personal or professional relation, Matrimonialvivah helps in making personal relationship between two persons and between their familie…